Your concern is that fat women are going to be attracted to you and that you might offend them when you reject them, or you’re concerned with fat women being attracted to you because you’re black and they think that gives them an in?

Even if it were true, what would be the problem? Maybe black men tolerate/enjoy/can handle more meat on the bones? And tbh there's fat/chubs and American FAT. Personally, I think I enjoy curves more today in my 30s than I did in my teenage years/early adulthood. 🤷

Yeah so women's main concern isn't to make sure every guy in the vicinity wants to sex them.

I don't know why you think that.